Friends with Benefits?

Ok, this story is 100% real, though the names have been changed for privacy reasons. Let’s call our guy David, and our girl Sofia. Nothing personal with all the Davids and Sofias out there, I just really like the names. (Lol).

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~Have you ever tried to take control of a really awkward situation that you put yourself into? If you have, you know the feeling I’m talking about. For example, David and Sofia were both getting out of bad relationships. They liked each other but didn’t want anything serious at the moment. You see, they were both part of abusive relationships, where the partners were possessive and jealous people. They finally got the strength to end it before it grew worse. But let’s start at the beginning.

David worked in a little bar close to Sofia’s house. They went to the same high school and knew each other from afar. They added one another on facebook but never talked a lot. Sofia always had a thing for David, she always stalked his Facebook profile to see what he was up to (don’t act like you haven’t done that, 😂). Finally, she grew “balls” and said hi to him via messenger. He replied, and thus a friendship was born.

One day, David invited Sofia to the little bar he tended. And he knew exactly her favorite kind of beer, so he put a couple of extra ones in the coldest part of the freezer for her. Sofia walked in and that was their first physical “meet and greet”. Much to their surprise, they hit it off. He liked the way she moved her hips when she walked. She was petite, wide hips, big booty, dark haired, brown eyed, and a native kind of goddess.

She liked his voice and, being totally honest, she loved his butt. He was an athletic type, which was really hot. He was taller than her, and he had a beautiful bold smile. He served her a couple of beers and they just talked and talked till the end of his shift. When they finally said goodbye, they both left thinking about the same thing.

The thing is, they lusted each other so bad, they wanted to be close but not close enough for a serious thing. They reached an agreement. Sex, no strings attached. Strictly physical, no jealousy, no compromise, no feelings, (we all know that always works out great— not!)

The first time they ever did it was in a car. It was hilarious, awkward, sweaty and messy. It was cringeworthy afterwards, the silence, the awkward tension inside the car, as he drove back to her house to drop her off. A couple of months went by and they grew fonder and fonder of each other. Sofia loved the way his hands would run around her back, and David loved the way she played with her hands in certain parts of his body. Their sex was great, the lusty kissed, hungry for passion, hungry for one another.

Then one random day, David friend-zoned Sofia. She was so mad at herself, she had grown feelings for him and she knew that wasn’t part of the deal. So she kept it to herself. He cared for her, which is why he tried to end it before anyone could get hurt. Eventually, Sofia told Dave she had feelings for him and he told her he felt the same way. They tried to keep themselves in order. They stopped seeing each other for a while. But nope, didn’t work out.

David called Sofia one day to go for a drive and talk. They went out for a bite and he handed her a little note. She started reading it and squealed, as the note said he loved her and wanted her to be his girlfriend. She immediately said yes. They finally accepted that there are things we can’t really take control of. There’s things that we put ourselves into and we try to lie to ourselves, but in the end LIFE IS SHORT. #YOLO (lol).

Fast forward to a couple of years later, David and Sofia broke up and everything went wrong. Just kidding! They actually got married, (shocker!). At the present time (July 2018) they’ve been married three years and together in general 5 years. Many adventures, no kids, two cats.

So… bottom line, just because you don’t want something to happen, doesn’t mean it’s not gonna turn out the way you expect it to! ‘Friends with benefit’ relationships are not for everyone. 😂


Hope you enjoyed reading this and feel free to send me your stories!

Till next time!

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